Seattle Couples Are Choosing the In-Between
- Jan 4
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 14
If you’re planning a wedding in Seattle right now, you’ve probably noticed something. The traditional options don’t fit like they used to.
On one end, there’s the courthouse: fast, legal, and affordable, but often cold, rushed, and impersonal - and bookings can be super hard to get. On the other, there’s the big traditional wedding. Beautiful, but expensive, stressful and overwhelming.
We work with so many couples who have realized they don’t actually want either. They want something real, legal, and meaningful, without turning their marriage into a production or a logistical nightmare.
That’s where an in-between wedding comes in.

What Is an "In-Between" Wedding?
An in-between wedding is exactly what it sounds like. Not a courthouse wedding and not a big traditional wedding. It’s a modern form of elopement that keeps what matters and cuts what doesn’t.
At Shotgun Ceremonies, the in-between means:
Eloping in Seattle, in a legal wedding ceremony, handled properly
A space that feels warm, intentional and personal
Time to breathe, laugh and be present
A celebration that fits your real life
It feels like a wedding. Not an appointment.
Why So Many Seattle Couples Are Eloping Now
Elopements are no longer just a trend. They’re a strategic shift. Couples searching for Seattle elopement venues, budget weddings, and quick wedding options are usually looking for the same thing: simplicity.
They want:
Fewer decisions
Less pressure
A lower overall wedding cost
Something that feels authentic
Couples that consider eloping tend to value experiences. They care about meaning, not seating charts. They want to be married without months of planning or tens of thousands of dollars of debt. An "in-between" wedding gives them exactly that.
Courthouse Wedding vs Elopement vs In-Between Wedding
Let’s break it down simply.
Courthouse | Big wedding | The in-between | |
Cost | $200 - $400 plus license | $30,000+ | $500 plus license |
Planning time | Weeks, when you can get a spot | 12 months+ | About 2 minutes |
Guests | Capped at 6 | 100+ | Up to 12 |
Music | No | Yes | Yes, we'll make you a custom playlist |
Dogs | No | Depends on venue | Highly encouraged |
How it feels | An appointment | A production | A wedding |
Legally married | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Same legal marriage. Very different day.
Is an In-Between Wedding a Budget Wedding?
Yes, but not in the way most people think. A budget wedding doesn’t mean cutting corners. It means spending intentionally.
In-between weddings allow couples to:
Skip venues that require large guest counts
Avoid minimums, rentals, and vendor overload
Focus on the ceremony itself
Celebrate without financial regret
Spend their potential wedding budget where it matters to them: a nice dinner out to celebrate, a honeymoon, a down payment on a home or business, etc.
For many couples, it’s not about spending less; it’s about spending right as they begin married life together.
Why Couples Choose Shotgun Ceremonies
Couples come to Shotgun Ceremonies because they want:
A real wedding without courthouse vibes
A simple experience that still feels special
A Seattle elopement venue that isn’t generic
A ceremony they’ll actually remember

They didn’t want the whole thing. They didn’t want the courthouse. They wanted the in-between.
Is the In-Between Right for You?
If any of these sound familiar, it probably is:
“We just want to be married, not plan a wedding.”
“We don’t want a big wedding, but the courthouse feels so generic.”
“We want something personal, but not overwhelming.”
“We want it to be legal, simple, and meaningful.”
That instinct you’re feeling isn’t indecision. It’s clarity about keeping it simple.
Book an In-Between Wedding in Seattle
You don’t have to choose between “too much” and “not enough.” If you’re looking for a Seattle elopement that feels like a wedding, not a legal errand, Shotgun Ceremonies was built for you.
We’re the in-between. Not a courthouse. Not a big wedding. Something better than both. One thing you cannot skip: Washington requires a marriage license, and there is a three-day wait between applying and marrying. Sort that a few days ahead and the rest is easy. Here is how the license works. If yours is already valid, call us. We can often marry you the same day.
👉 Come elope with us!






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