Seattle Couples Are Choosing the In-Between

If you’re planning a wedding in Seattle right now, you’ve probably noticed something. The traditional options don’t fit like they used to.

On one end, there’s the courthouse: fast, legal and affordable, but often cold, rushed and impersonal (and bookings can be super hard to get!). On the other, there’s the big traditional wedding. Beautiful, but expensive, stressful and overwhelming.

We work with so many couples who have realized they don’t actually want either.

They want something real, legal and meaningful, without turning their marriage into a production or a logistical nightmare.

That’s where an in-between wedding comes in.

What Is an "In-Between" Wedding?

An in-between wedding is exactly what it sounds like. Not a courthouse wedding and not a big traditional wedding. It’s a modern form of elopement that keeps what matters and cuts what doesn’t.

At Shotgun Ceremonies, the in-between means:

• A legal wedding ceremony, handled properly

• A space that feels warm, intentional and personal

• Time to breathe, laugh and actually be present

• A celebration that fits your real life, not a Pinterest board

  
  

It feels like a wedding. Not an appointment. And not a 3-ring circus.

Why So Many Seattle Couples Are Eloping Right Now

Elopements are no longer just a trend. They’re a strategic shift. Couples searching for Seattle elopement venues, budget weddings and quick wedding options are usually looking for the same thing: simplicity.

They want:

• Fewer decisions

• Less pressure

• A lower overall wedding cost

• Something that feels authentic

Couples that consider eloping tend to value experiences over spectacle. They care about meaning, not seating charts. They want to be married without months of planning or tens of thousands of dollars of debt.

An "in-between" wedding gives them exactly that.

Courthouse Wedding vs Elopement vs In-Between Wedding

Let’s break it down simply.

Courthouse Wedding

• Legal and affordable

• Often rushed

• Minimal personalization

• Government building setting

• No pets, minimal guest options

Traditional Wedding

• Highly customizable

• Expensive and time-consuming

• Stressful planning process

• Often more about guests than the couple

• Debt, debt, debt

In-Between Wedding

• Legal, like the courthouse

• Personal & custom, like a traditional wedding

• Budget-friendly without feeling cheap ($400 total!)

• Designed to feel human, warm and memorable

• A small number of guests are welcome (pets included!)

Same legal marriage. Very different day.

Is an In-Between Wedding a Budget Wedding?

Yes, but not in the way most people think. A budget wedding doesn’t mean cutting corners. It means spending intentionally.

In-between weddings allow couples to:

• Skip venues that require large guest counts

• Avoid minimums, rentals and vendor overload

• Focus on the ceremony itself

• Celebrate without financial regret

• Spend their potential wedding budget where it matters to them: a nice dinner out to celebrate, a honeymoon, a downpayment on a home or business, etc.

For many couples, it’s not about spending less; it’s about spending right as they begin married life together.

Why Couples Choose Shotgun Ceremonies

Couples come to Shotgun Ceremonies because they want:

• A real wedding without courthouse vibes

• A simple experience that still feels special

• A Seattle elopement venue that isn’t generic

• A ceremony they’ll actually remember

They didn’t want the whole thing. They didn’t want the courthouse.

They wanted the in-between.

Is the In-Between Right for You?

If any of these sound familiar, it probably is:

• “We just want to be married, not plan a wedding.”

• “We don’t want a big wedding, but the courthouse feels so generic.”

• “We want something personal, but not overwhelming.”

• “We want it to be legal, simple and meaningful.”

That instinct you’re feeling isn’t indecision. It’s clarity about keeping it simple.

Book an In-Between Wedding in Seattle

You don’t have to choose between “too much” and “not enough.” If you’re looking for a Seattle elopement that feels like a wedding, not a legal errand, Shotgun Ceremonies was built for you.

We’re the in-between. Not a courthouse. Not a big wedding. Something better than both. Come elope with us.

👉 Book the In-Between